Ok,  Jeremy was correct that I would have to use the AppleWM to ditch the proxy icon.  Most of what I want to do can be done right there.  

My big question is:  Is there a source and documentation for the AppleWM on how to build and compile.  I know its a dynamic library.   But I am clueless starting from there.  

I kind of wish there was a dummies guide to this.  

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Shane Dobbins